I'm straight but quite good friends with this attractive lesbian. I'm worried she might try and turn it into something more or I might start liking her even though I'm not into girls. Is it possible to be just friends?
Girls, Will being friends with a lesbian eventually lead into something more?
What Girls Said 3
Only if deep down you are bisexual or a lesbian yourself. If you are truly a heterosexual and you sincerely, from the bottom of your heart have zero attraction to women sexually, physically, mentally, or emotionally then it's perfectly possible to be friends with a lesbian without it eventually becoming something more. I have a few friends who are lesbians and I've never had even the slightest desire to date or hook up with them.0
Of course it is. If she ends up making a move, just let her know you aren't comfortable with that.0
She won't hit on you much unless you encourage it, in my experience. My cousin/close friend is a lesbian and I hang with them frequently. Nobody has ever gotten out of line (unlike hanging with guy friends!)
As far as you liking her... possibly, but that would just be who you are. Being around her won't rub off and make you bisexual.0
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