I've heard it several times throughout life that there a direct approach and there is indirect passive approach to meeting women. Vise versa. I always tend to try stay on the side of caution with the passive approach, despite knowing that it may come off the wrong way to some. I believe talking and getting to know someone (I feel 2-3 months feels safe) before I start throwing out hints that like them... little bits at a time.. not to scare somebody off. I've had some success, then some not. Being direct, yes it saves time but I feel like by doing that I'm cheating myself out of a healthy relationship by looking like I'm after just one thing. Honestly i believe it's too forward and immediately takes away the mystery and or challenge. What do you think? Any success stories or other suggestions?
Which approach do you prefer and why?
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