Well I have never had anyone either and to me, yes, it does indeed matter. People who say "oh no, you should just be happy by being single, being single is great hur dur" are usually people who have already experienced relationships - that means they have no right to tell people without experience on how it's "better" to be outside a relationship in my opinion.
I really dont care. If anything I enjoy being single. I see all my friends in relationships, they have to worry about buying presents, getting approval to go out, having to watch what they say. I do whatever I want when I want, go where I want, buy what I want. Not much incentive to get a girlfriend.
If you just ``want *A* boyfriend`` so that you'll have "A boyfriend" , then you'll probably still be single for a while. It's nice to be together with someone you mutually like each other with, though.
Of course it matters, it's like the best feeling in the world to have someone who cares about you and loves you, and anyone says it doesn't matter to them is simply lying cause deep inside he/she needs a gf/bf badly
I'm one of those people who are usually single. The idea of being with someone and having romantic time sounds lovely. I've been taking a lot of time learning to love myself, be loving, and make the most of my life. Sometimes I want to be romanced and have a guy that will tell me how beautiful I am and make me feel wanted and loved, but I am no rush to make that happen anymore. Every time I rushed that it would go bad really fast. What helps me cope is having supportive and loving friends to hang out with, a cat, making art, being a positive energy magnet, and treating people the way I want to be treated. That attracts the right people in my life, and who knows, maybe one of them will end up being my boyfriend!
Right now I'm quite happy being single. Being in a relationship can be fun at first, it's the infatuation stage but relationships take work. It being mostly one sided doing all the work can be draining and stressful.
not matter... you'll find your SO whenever the time is right, don't push yourself for that, it's never a competition. If you're single, treasure your free time, go travel and meet new people. You'll be happier and it's always the best way to meet a partner - it's open up your mind, and you'll always have stuff to talk about or share with others. Coz happy and fun lady traveler is very attractive, trust me ;)
Having a boyfriend is not important to me... Having a boyfriend who complements my life is important to me. And I personally think you're better off single until you meet someone who does compliment your life and adds value to it
I like having bfs. It's fun to be with people, so yes it does matter to me.
Honestly, I've dated a lot of people and just hooked up with a lot of people and you should never feel more valuable just because someone is confirming it for you. There's nothing wrong with being single. Your not leftovers or promiscuous etc.. maybe you just haven't met them yet or don't feel like it.
I'm not going to lie, having a boyfriend would be nice. Sometimes, when I'm walking on the street and I see couples holding hands , I wish I could do the same. And I get jealous of them :(
The problem is that I'm interested in someone who lives in another country and I can't be with him now. I'll do my best to be with him and hopefully we will be together in the future.