Hi everyone , I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic. Anyway I've never had a girlfriend I come from Melbourne Aus and find the girls here really difficult to talk to, I'm very relaxed and down to earth. All my mates who have been overseas reckon the girls come up to you and talk , unless you're in a big city in a western country where girls are precived to be more self entitled. Anyway what do you find attractive in a guy? I have broad shoulders broad chest muscular , I have bright blue eyes big check bones good jawline , but I have red hair which always seems to be the biggest turn of. I have a good job , completed a degree in economics, very down to earth and can talk to most people , yet when I ask a girl out I've just been always told no , go away, ewwww red head yuck , no sorry. I've just got to the point of giving up because I just can't be bothered anymore I'm sick of it. Anyway here's photos of myself.
I have used to tinder over the last year , I'm from melbourne ( which is very left wing , politicaly correct and have a lot more people , with European backgrounds) I might get a match once every 3rd day , when I was in Sydney and Brisbane Id get matches every 30 mins. So now I've just deleted face book and tinder and don't even talk to women. Anymore
Most Helpful Girl
I swear you've asked this exact question before0
Most Helpful Guy
have you considered tatting yourself up?
i think if you got a little bit of bad boy vibe you might do better. at any rate i always tell people that they have to work on confidence blah blah but when i read this i dont see confidence as a problem. just work on yourself and being friendly with girls
they won't turn you down if your just being nice but you genuinely need to go at it like your just being friendly. once you have a large group of female aquaintances you can meet girls through them or possibly date one of them0