One of my friends told me that while guys don't like white girls, they prefer Asian or latin women over white women, why is that?
Most Helpful Guy
Bad experience with white women causes this. I think it has more to do with culture than race though. I have seen white women do so many hurtful things to their men I was about to give up on all women. Then I met the first happily married guy I have ever known. He was married to an Asian woman raised in another country. You could even see the love in his eyes when he talked about her. Then I met several Mexican women, and saw how well they treat men.
Most women in white society get offended at the idea that they should be grateful for a guy that treats them well. Despite the fact that everyone wants to be appreciated for treating their partner well, most women brought up in white cultures think they should be able to take being treated well for granted, and then demand more on top of that in order for the guy to prove himself.
I think most white guys are attracted to white women. They just like how women from other cultures tend to treat men better. Men in our culture don't even have value as a father, as it is now politically incorrect to think a single mother can't do as well on her own, and since she knows she will get custody, means that she won't have any problem ripping the family apart the moment her husband stops kissing her ass. What sane man would want a relationship with a woman that has been raised to have so little value for men?
The only time in my life I have ever heard a woman suggest a man to take a lower paying job because it was safer, was from a foreign woman. I am sure there are good white women, but the odds of finding them is harder than finding a girl raised in another culture that does value men.1
Most Helpful Girl
That's their preference.
Honestly, I think the "preference" word is often over-used and is a big cover up for covert racism (hidden and out of sight hatred for another race).
In your friend's case he probably has self hatred and is not willing to admit it.
How can you find your own phenotype undesirable?
I guarantee along with saying he finds other races more attractive he'll probably have negative stigmas associated with his own race which drives him away from them.
I've noticed this about people that refuse to date their own race.
Of course, they're not willing to admit it because they want to paint a acceptable picture for society.3