This guy at my job and I have been hanging out a lot lately and we talk almost everyday. We go on a few dates and one date we tired to have sex but he could not get it up at all. That night was just embrassing. He was embrassed and unhappy but there was not much I could do. I left that night and we hung out a couple days later at his house. He tried to have sex but I was not having a repeat of the other night so I declined. His friends came over and I met them. After that we talked the next day about work and that was it. I have not spoke to him in 4 days. He sent me a text I replied and he never sent anything back.
I went into work today (on my off day) to buy food and didn't say Hi to him becuase we have nothing to talk about. He calls me after work asking me why I didn't say hi to him. I told him " I dont care if you say hi to me or not. Honestly I have nothing to gain from this" he said " Ok I guess thats just how things are gonna be" I said "Sure"
I been on vacation for the past week and Its been nice and I dont miss him. I kinda just want to put this whole situation behind me and believe it never happened.
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So your not going to tell him why your being rude to him? He could get it up maybe he was tired or stress. Something communicate and figure out a way you guys could at least say hi and bye. What if you were dry as a desert and he just started being rude to you how would you feel after that. You don't have to have sex but give him an explanation as to why. If everything worked out the way we planned it there wouldn't be issues and a lot of people would be rich and satisfied3