What is something a guy could do for a girl he likes (but she doesn't know) on Valentines day?
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Pamper her. Be sure he has done everything else he had to do that day in advance so once she is back from whatever oxcupation, he can spend the rest of the day with her. He could cook dinner, something out of the ordinary, that shows he put some effort. A good bottle of wine (if everybody is over 18 or 21 of course), candles, you just have to, it needs candles it is unavoidable. Having no candles could ruin the whole thing. The candles will be that thing that really makes it different and will leave an imprint in her memory. She will associate the smell of the food and candles burning with the intensity of the light. That will set the mood and that's what she is going to remember still in 10 years. Every time she will see candles she'll remember that night. Now you have to make sure it's a nice memory. You talk to her yes, but you really listen. No phones, no distraction. Just you and her. Once you are done, time for dessert. Something you can have bought. Something really fancy but that won't stuff her too much if you want sex later 😉. Then you can take the conversation to the living room. Side to side on the sofa. Eyes locked into hers. Once you are done talking, might be a good time for a make out session. If it doesn't lead straight to sex, I recommend a nice massage. Something elaborate with candles, scented oil. Pre-warm the room and oil of course. If you don't know how, now would be a good time to learn so you are ready for V day. If you don't get sex after that, you never will.1