I'm just wondering.
I've made the first move before with guys, either kissing them first or give them my number or "hint" we should go out for drinks. I'll only do this if I have a pretty strong feeling the guy's interested in me after we talked, not just with anyone lol. I do get nervous when I do this but like I said, only when I'm sure. I've actually only done this 3 times (read above) LOL but all three of those times I was about 98% sure the guys liked me.
I've never approached a guy or anything really headstrong like that, but I will ask a guy out (subtly) if I like him enough and I think he'll say yes.
Me personally I don't see anything wrong with it other than I'm just accelerating the process. But i don't know if that's a good thing 'cause a lot of girls think you should play hard-to-get.
What's a guy's opinion on a girl making the first move?
Most Helpful Guy
Personally, I wouldn't say what you're doing is "making the first move" as much as just "general higher order" flirting. But to answer your question, as a cautious dater, I personally really appreciate a girl that goes for those "high risk", yet still sort of subtle, moves along the road to relationship. Clear interest from the side of the girl will most definitely increase how comfortable a guy is with you and will likewise, makes him more comfortable to reciprocate "higher risk" moves with you because his risk is being mitigated by yours (and vice versa). Making the first move, of course does come with risks, but as you said:
all three of those times I was about 98% sure the guys liked me
you seem to know how to evaluate your risk well. Making the first move, of course, has to be tactful b/c the probability that a movie style, let's go out on a date lack of suitableness can be a very dangerous and strange option indeed. Making the first move definitely has to have the right ratio of subtle and obvious. Hitting the right balance with the little tilt of obvious can drive a guy nuts in a good way.0
Most Helpful Girl
I believe so cuz they are lazy! hahah!0