Okay, so I heard a few things and or rumors about my boyfriend liking another girl & that he was supposedly flirting with her & the girl is my friend.
I heard it and I was really mad, and it became overwhelming. And I did something stupid, but I was so mad because I have dated this guy before, but last time I heard something about him talking to a different girl & he apparently "liked" her. I never found out if that was true or not though.
Anyways I tried to break up with him & he kept asking me why, and I told him that I couldn't trust him. And I told him about the rumors I heard and he said he talks to my friend, but he doesn't like her. And then I asked him about the other girl & apparently it wasn't true either.
So I pretty much falsely accused him of cheating. But my friend never told me that she ever talked to him at all, why would she not tell me about that? I mean they don't talk at school but supposedly they text.
But it went on from there, and I apologized several times & I feel like trash, because I knew he was a good guy but the rumors just became so overwhelming that I did something stupid. And I told him that I didn't blame him if he wanted to break up with me, I mean I would have if I was him.
But he said he wasn't going to break up with me. Is there anything I can do to make this situation better? Because I feel really bad & I totally regret doing that. What should I do?
Most Helpful Guy
Stop listening to other peoples lies you simply cannot live you life based on rumors. Your boyfriend was talking to your friend and they both go to the same school, that is 100% normal for people to talk and text each other. People who spread rumors are usually bored, immature, jealous or a combination of the three.
If you see suspicous texts or he starts acting weirdly then thats another matter, but for now just say sorry you accused him and hopefully he'll understand and that will be that.0
Most Helpful Girl
sounds to me as the situation is already better. just move on.. i mean you can say sorry one more time but if he says it's okay then just forget the incident ever happened.1