I like a guy with Social Anxiety Disorder. We only met once in person and he was so scared, he hid his face and kept repeating how nervous he was. He's a tall, muscular man. A lot of girls think he's hot, but he has no clue. He is so uncomfortable with himself and apparently with me too, since he keeps saying he doesn't know if he wants to hangout again, he feels awkward and uncomfortable. I've never met a man so afraid and anxious. I don't know what to do, the few times I got him to open up, I really liked what I saw... but then he hurries up and closes back up again. Any advice?
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When I first read this I thought you were talking about SAD (Seasonal Affective Disorder). I have never seen anyone use acronyms for Social Anxiety Disorder.
Anyway, you are going to have to go where he is comfortable and you are going to have to make the first move. Find out what his interests are. If he likes movies, go to his place and watch movies. If he likes video games, hang out with him and play some video games. Allow him to get comfortable without putting too much pressure on him in the beginning. Do fun things the first few times you are with him and he should slowly start to come out of his shell.0
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