Any ideas? Where and how?
Most Helpful Guy
Horrible day to find someone in my opinion. Valentine's Day is the day that really test the will of unhappily single people. Sitting around knowing that a good portion of the world is out loving each other while you're alone can push a lot of people into sadness. So when an option comes along people desperately jump on it. And desperation usually leads to impaired thinking and unhealthy over attachment. I always disappear on Valentine's Day and wait about a week or two before trying anything. Although Valentine's Day is a holiday it isn't magic. People aren't magically going to bond just because of what day it is. But Valentine's Day does present that illusion. A lot of couples are out there struggling but are putting on loving masks just for this day. Good relationships take intimacy, commitment, and passion. And changing what day of the year it is isn't going to change that. I'd advise avoiding clubs, bars, and speed dating places (where everyone will be desperately lunging at unhealthy targets because they're lonely and single on Valentine's day) and sticking strictly to places that cater towards your own specific passions about life.0
Most Helpful Girl
Honestly I'm a bit skeptical. Lots of people feel lonely on V-day so they grab on to the first best thing they can find. And a few days later, they realize they were just acting out on their loneliness and picked the wrong person. Alternatively, a lot of people (mostly men) know just how lonely a lot of people (mostly women) might be. So they use that to their advantage to fuck around and get as much sex as possible. And then just dump the girls.
So I dunno. I'd rather pick a more normal day when the tension (and expectations) aren't so high.0