I started seeing a guy who I've known in college for several years. We were never close friends and we never actually hung out until about three months ago when we started sleeping together. He's always been nice and sweet, and I like him a lot. He told me the first time we hooked up that he's wanted to get to know me for awhile and he really likes me too. He's taken me out on "dates" like to dinner, the movies, art shows, etc. However, every single time we see each other, especially lately, we end up having sex for the majority of the time we're together. Yesterday, for example, I show up to his house thinking we were going to eat, or watch a movie or something, and the minute I walk in the door, he takes me to his bedroom. It's great and everything, but I'm starting to think that's all he's interested in. We also only see each other about once a week, if less, so I'm thinking I'm just there for when he needs to get laid kind of thing. What the heck is going on?
Most Helpful Guy
Yes.. to me this seems all that he wants from you.. and seen as you are not really saying anything to stop this from happening.. he now just expects it any time and all the time.. guys like him are a dime a dozen in this world.. as sex is what most want and they can charm the pants off of you or any women to get it and also get into your good grace's so that they know you are not going to fight them on this issue or any other one they come up with
Not all are like this but many are.. It is your body and you can do things as you see fit.. but you did ask the question.. and this is my honest opinion to it.. I do hope everything works out for you in the long run.. but you have to put your foot down a little bit harder.. before he will just expect more and more that everything he says will fly.. and when he wants it.1
Most Helpful Girl
Hi sweetheart, Im not quite sure what he wants out of this relationship
Either he does just want you for sex or he does really like you but some guys are really horny
to test him out, whenever you see him, say you dont want to have sex you just wanna spend some quality time with him like at home with a cooked meal or the movies x1