Two guys text me all the time. They have both asked me on dates and they know about each other. I went on a date with each of them but each one was cool with the other one hanging out with me. I hangout and drive around with one more than te other. We are practically dating but aren't. We hangout with the other guy too. I really like hanging out with both of them. I'm really not sure about the situation. Help?
You eventually have to choose one of them, and I recommend you to not wait too long, cause when one of them starts to catch stronger feelings, he's gonna want you to choose either him or the other, which will pressure you even more. It's ok to hang out with both if nothing is serious yet, but you don't wanna catch feelings for both, cause you don't wanna play with both (unless all 3 want that, that's another story).
When I say choose I don't mean choose one and ditch the other, just choose who you wanna date, and who you wanna keep as a friend.
If you are not sure about the situation, then you clearly don't like any of them enough.
I'd say to try being alone for now. I mean, there is no pressure not to be single. At this age, even relationships with guys are not a sure thing, since they tend to me more imature than anything else.
Also, I'd say it is only worth it to enter a relationship if you feel strongly attracted towards someone as a person. And yes I mean the whole package, looks, but mostly, mostly personality. If you don't feel a stong connection with who they are as people... (I am assuming this because you are having trouble choosing), then it is just not worth it to enter a relationship just because suddenly 2 guys have been romantically pursuing you. You are not obliged to choose one of them at all!
Just letting you know. Anyways, hope you do what your gutt tells you is best. That is what usually guides me in these things... my intuition.
Your gut can tell you to choose one or none. But if your gut is not being clear enough, then more often than not it is best to stay single.
by the way you must be the last opinion I am writing before taking a long break from GAG lol
I've had this situation arise with me many times. Almost always with best friends. I have always just let my friend have the girl and I move on. I think I have done this 4 or 5 times. But there was this one time, when I said nope. Not this girl, she's mine. And she ended up being the longest person I ever dated and probably only ever loved.
Have a relationship with both? If not tell the one that you don't like to just be friends because you shouldn't have them fighting for your attention, and if you don't want to date either then tell them that you only want to be their friend and nothing more before you hurt them both, but if you're attracted to both you could try to have relationship with both, will it mostly likely fail... yes, but at your age chances are low for any relationship to last... Not saying there's isn't a possibility of it lasting... I know people who are old and it their first ever relationship that they ever had and it going to be their last too.
I've never had this problem, since whenever I'm taking to multiple girls usually one conveniently drops off somewhow so the process of elimination automatically happens. Until the other one drops off that is, then it sucks.
I will be honest you're 15 iam 22 so we have our differences but here's the thing , i do not compete for girls , i show signs of attraction and wait for hers ( which usually happens quickly tbh :) ) i start getting closer and if i find out she's dating another guy at the same time ( before we become bf/gf ) i won't really do much about it but ask her to choose one, and if she doesn't and would rather have us both iam gone, i do not compete for girls there are way too many girls to be competing for one with another guy, it can easily cause problems and fights so choose one.
Thank you so much for the Kind Mention and You... Have my own Attention, @Random_chick_2384 Do Not make any Commitments right now. This would be a Mistake. You don't even have to tell the One about the other. Keep it light and sweet, Nurse and Nurture each one and if the day might Come where One would want a Hooked at the hip, my Tip... If you are ready to be steady, Choose the One you Might know by then who is Mr. Right and if you are Not into Choosing, then go on with what you are Doing. In being with them Individually, the More time in spending with them, the More in Store you will Learn. Good luck and just Enjoy Each Boy. xx
Why do you have to define the relationship. Just live your life. If it's cool all three of you together or knowing about each other, that's fine too. You are taking a molehill and making a big mountain out of it. I think it's cool that you have two guys liking you. Add a third and a fourth annual be exactly like me
Well take it easy, go out on more dates with both of them and hang out. Whichever one you feel attracted to, go for that one and the other one can just be your friend. Not really sure Lol just go for what your heart tells you.