Two guys text me all the time. They have both asked me on dates and they know about each other. I went on a date with each of them but each one was cool with the other one hanging out with me. I hangout and drive around with one more than te other. We are practically dating but aren't. We hangout with the other guy too. I really like hanging out with both of them. I'm really not sure about the situation. Help?
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Also I'm just really confused about the situation
Most Helpful Guy
You eventually have to choose one of them, and I recommend you to not wait too long, cause when one of them starts to catch stronger feelings, he's gonna want you to choose either him or the other, which will pressure you even more.
It's ok to hang out with both if nothing is serious yet, but you don't wanna catch feelings for both, cause you don't wanna play with both (unless all 3 want that, that's another story).
When I say choose I don't mean choose one and ditch the other, just choose who you wanna date, and who you wanna keep as a friend.0
Most Helpful Girl
If you are not sure about the situation, then you clearly don't like any of them enough.
I'd say to try being alone for now. I mean, there is no pressure not to be single. At this age, even relationships with guys are not a sure thing, since they tend to me more imature than anything else.
Also, I'd say it is only worth it to enter a relationship if you feel strongly attracted towards someone as a person. And yes I mean the whole package, looks, but mostly, mostly personality. If you don't feel a stong connection with who they are as people... (I am assuming this because you are having trouble choosing), then it is just not worth it to enter a relationship just because suddenly 2 guys have been romantically pursuing you. You are not obliged to choose one of them at all!
Just letting you know. Anyways, hope you do what your gutt tells you is best. That is what usually guides me in these things... my intuition.
Your gut can tell you to choose one or none. But if your gut is not being clear enough, then more often than not it is best to stay single.
by the way you must be the last opinion I am writing before taking a long break from GAG lol
xoxo, GG lol
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