I've been on two dates with a guy. We haven't kissed yet but I think he's interested because he A) paid for me even when I offered to pay, B) invited me back to his house to watch a movie when one of our plans didn't work out, and C) cuddled with me and held my hand FOR AN HOUR. Also he walked me out to my car when I left. He's just really nice to me and there were no red flags or anything. I really want to see him again, but when I texted him the day after we last went out he didn't respond. He is always slow, as in I get one to two texts from him per day, before and/or after work. This is the first time he just hasn't responded. Do you think he's decided he's not interested? Would it be a bad idea to text him again tomorrow (it will be two days since I last contacted him then)?
He sounds like someone who isn't always on their phone, which is a good thing! But not when you're waiting for a response from him. From what you've said it sounds like he definitely likes you, he just needs to get better at replying to your texts haha :) I know what it's like, but do something else to take your mind off it. See him in person as much as possible too.
... There were no red flags or anything. With this being Said and from What I have Read, @moosette134 Go ahead and Push One more "Be sure" Button to make Sure..."Are you okay, dear?" Wait and see if This gets You a Reply from the 'Slow' Guy, and if Not... Let it Go and then you will probably Know... Something is Not right, You may have even Been... Friend zoned Flagged with His Cold Duck feet. Good luck. xx
Well, firstly, A doesn't necessarily mean he is interested. My crush insisted on paying when we went out as colleagues, but that's juat how he was raised, I'm 100%in the friend zone Now, for your situation, I am so sorry to say this, but it seems like he lost interest or something. Especially since even after you stopped contact he didn't initiate it. I would personally just wait to see if he texts me, if he doesn't then I would move on.