I'm 100% hispanic and I really like older white guys (not for their money), but for my attraction towards them and their maturity as older men. The problem is that as a minority girl, I'm very limited when it comes to guys. I'm always getting attention from mostly hispanic and black guys, but very few good-looking white guys. I'm not trying to sound as if I have an inferiority complex, however the reality is that I'll never be as good as a "hot white girl". I have an olive complexion lol. In addition, I am pretty certain that his family would initially disapprove of me since most people have negative perceptions of hispanic girls. What are your thoughts?
Most Helpful Guy
Minorities can be at a disadvantage simply because they're members of a minority and have fewer potential romantic partners in their environment.
That said, you're overestimating the negative perceptions you would experience. I had a Hispanic girlfriend when I was younger and my family (white rural Southern) was completely accepting of her. Just made no difference, and these are not very sophisticated people we're talking about. Most whites see an olive complexion as an advantage, not a disadvantage. You can be better than a hot white girl. :)2
Most Helpful Girl
I tend to like Mexican guys and Puerto Rican ones. I feel more balanced with them the culture the language the sense of family the accent the look'! White guys love girls from all races! There are beautiful Mexican girls and funny ones and cute and sweet and fun and smart and sexy!! Calmate mija you just gotta shine!!! Be confident be you!1