So I've been talking to a guy for over a year now. Long story short... With my detective skills lol I've caught him commenting a random girls pic before with kissy, heart eyes and heart shaped emojis. I confronted him about it and he says its nothing, this and that. He says thats how he shows love to his friends. In my opinion that isn't cooool, he definitely wouldn't like me showing love like that to my friends that are the opposite sex. I approached the girl with the situation as well, nothing catty or anything but i just honestly wanted to find out the truth. She told me he was trying be more than friendly with her... I believe her. I again confronted him with this as well, he denied it callin her crazy. I then started avoiding him because obviously he didn't want to own up to the crap he was doing. He kep txting and calling me nonstop. Making me seem like i was the one that fucked up. And i was the one making the situation more than what it was. I was officially done! He begged for closure, i didn't want to be rude and leave it on bad terms so i answered and decided to give him closure. He ended up twisting everything up and saying he only said that to make me talk to him... I know im honestly a foool to fall for the dumbest trick in the book. So we gradually started talking again, he says he never cheated when honestly in my eyes that was more than enough to consider cheating. For valentines day he invited me over, didn't get me anything... Im never one to expect anything from anyone but i mean... He says he LOVES me but doesn't even try to make me feel special at all... not even a simple gesture. I even told him that he couldve picked a flower from his backyard and given it to me id appreciate it with my soul... Nothing. The next day he txts me good morning as usual but disappears for the whole day. I understand completely when people are busy because im busy as well but if you care as much as you say you do, a simple call or text to tell me you
Most Helpful Guy
HI im stranger
There are several options you can go with.
A. Because you think he's cheating on you and doesn't make you special, treat him like a friend and start over again if he does want to be with you again.
B. Believe the first story he told you where its just showing friendly, If you both truly love each other that is. Its about taking one step back for each other.
C. You Know he's lying and you Have solid evidence to back it up. Its not really worth it and he's just doing all these so you love him more than he loves you.
D. Your own way.1
Most Helpful Girl
These are the Sure signs, @Miiirp of a Player and a Slayer at his Best from the Rest.
With his Hymning and Hawing, his Disappearance Acts and No Yaks, and his 'He says he LOVES me' don't buy it. He is Not ready for a Real Relationship and doesn't want one, he wants to have His cake with any cutie and leave you on his Side dish as A... Wish.
You are this Apple way at the top of the apple tree, Hardest to Get and Grab and Eat. He finds you a Chase, a Challenge with your Own 'Im way too prideful' actions and if he had you Today... Tomorrow back to 'Random girls' and Any Pick for this Dick.
Good luck. xx2
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