I slept with my ex while drunk. Should I tell my gf? Her older brother is a Marine and is experienced in combat and martial arts. she owns and knows how to use a pistol. She also threatened to beat me up and slap me. She beat up a guy who attempted to cheat on his girlfriend with her, and his (now ex) girlfriend caught them. Both women beat him up. They were about to kiss then his girlfriend caught him and dumped him. Based on her last actions and her legal possession of a pistol and her older brother in the Marines, should I tell her?
Yes you should tell her because you need to be a man and own up to your mistakes. I also suggest dumping her because 1. She probably already will and 2. She sounds crazy and seems like she might need help. That is not okay, under any circumstance, for her to act that way. Shit happens. Own up to your mistakes and she'll find someone new unless you two work it out. By the way you described it though, she doesn't seem like the type to "work it out". I'm just being honest here.
You don't have to tell her, but if you are so overly concerned then I think you would be better of breaking up with her in case she ever found out what had happened while you had been drunk.
Next time, remember to drink alcohol responsibly. This time you cheated on your girlfriend while you had been drunk, so what about the next time? Could you possibly end up drinking and driving the next time around?
Uh yes. Yes you should. You admit your wrongs like an adult and accept responsibility for your actions. Large problem with the world today, nobody takes responsibility. Obviously don't let her hurt you, but you need to tell her.
I think no. You need to do the right thing and just break it off with her... People do silly things when they are drunk, but they still know what they are doing and it is a choice... you chose to cheat, which means that whilst you may love your girlfriend, she isn't the one for you. Its also unfair to her... she didn't do anything wrong, and yet she is the one getting hurt. So break up, or you are going to get a hiding when she finds out, and then you are going to get dumped.
I understand why you wouldn't tell her if you think you would physically be in danger but beware it might come to bite you in the ass. If she finds out another way then it sounds like she's someone who will use violence. As you cheated on her and she might shoot you or beat you up I think you have some relationship issues to work through if you want this to last. Good luck with this!
i would tell her and i would put it this way well telling her i made a big mistake and broke your trust. i dont deserve the love you have shown me. and one day i hope you will for give me. then leave it at that. let her come to you to find the answers.
I know this is against the grain here, but if you ask me, you should keep your mouth shut. Some things are better left un-said. And based on what you say about her past responses to situations, I think if you do tell her, you might have to leave the country if you want to live. Chalk it up to a bad idea... time to grow up.. no more stupid drunk shit... etc. Good luck.
Do you want to keep dating her? Did the other guy get caught or honestly tell her? I think I would tell her. Also the fact that you are debating weather or not seems like you want to tell her and get it off your chest.