How should I move forward? Move on?
I really like and care about her, and would do whatever I can to make her happy because I care about her so much. We talk/text all the time, flirt, tease each other, so on. I eventually told her I cared about her, and she smiled and seemed happy. I asked her to be my valentine, but she said she was "taken". Said her friend and her were doing V-day, but she also technically had it with another guy. I then asked if she was dating him, and she said "maybe". However, we texted back and forth all of V-Day, I seemed to get a few good laughs out of her (she kept telling me how I was making her day better). At the end of the night, she tells me she rejected the guy, because she didn't know how she felt about him (doesn't know if she likes him or not). Next day, I see the guy she rejected waving at her, and her and him talking, but she doesn't know if she wants to "date" him. At this point, I am pretty much just done, done with the whole game. She still flirts with me a lot, but since he's in the picture, and I have offered to do stuff with her, I need to move on. Any advice on all this?
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Yep, quick way to get out of the friendzone: pursue someone else. It sounds like this girl is "saving" you while she tries to explore her options. That's not a good look for you - don't be that guy. Let her do her thing, and you do yours, unapologetically.0