It seems like a cycle for me. I'd like to think I'm a funny, cool, and interesting person to be with. However guys I've liked only seem to just want to use me for ego boost and etc. .
A guy I've talked to for a year is now in a relationship with a girl after 3months and He does everything for her that I would talk to him about but He treated me like crap.
Another guy I liked Would always flirt with me and I would talk to him and try to get to know him more. The situations we ended up in would be the perfect set up for beginning to like someone. We walked down Grad aisle together, he taught me to play guitar, we'd be partners for things etc...
Yet he would never make the move and wouldn't dodge me if he figured i was trying to.
I feel it's the same outcome and I am starting to believe love and a happy relationship is so farfetched , & unable to happen to me in my life. I never see myself finding anyone.
Guys tell me i have such a great personality, hmm smart, any guy would be lucky to be with me I keep thinking back to this reassurance and confidence I felt. These where guys that showed me signs first Or approached me, I've also told guys i liked them but they never reciprocated.
maybe guys could find you intimidating for your appearances. If this is true, men do treat women like shit to bring them back down to earth. WHat guys have said to you in the past could give you too high expectations of a future partner
Men do get intimidated if they feel there woman is better then themselves. If a man can say her woman looks beautiful in that dress, when he actually thinks she looks to fat, why can't he say that any guy would be lucky to have you? Guys have to expectation to go up to women, women don't land into guys hands easily.
Need to know a bit more about you and you need to be honest. 😃 Are you good looking and have a good body so a bit intimidating to guys. Are you sexual or a virgin. Do you imitate things or do you like to be submissive not just sex but in general life. Like your man to take care of you for him to make most of the decisions. These will all help me give you a much better opinion and then guidance
unfortunate, but completly understandable. it's sad, because some of us do want to have relationships and love in our life's. unfortunately there is always obstacles and problems. some of us can find ways around those or Let ourselfs be blocked from success. you will just have to keep pressing on, giving up is no longer an option.
You may like spending time with some guys but not every guy will be interested in you the same like him. I don't know what to say for the rest of what you mentioned. I don't know why these guys haven't made a move on asking you out.
It seems like the women I have truly wanted to be with don't like me back in the same way. Honestly I don't see myself being worthy of the women I've tried to be date of whom I could see myself committing to and fully loving, its complicated. I don't think I've even tried that much actually, but I just tell myself I have so I don't go out and get disappointed. Being alone is alright, there are plenty of people who learn to be happy being alone, I have to start doing this. You will be okay, learn to find validation from within and other interests. I'll be alone with you, lol.
Sucks to be on a receiving end of a friendzone treatment huh... well, guess what? You're not entitled to be loved just because you're a nice gal.