It seems like a cycle for me. I'd like to think I'm a funny, cool, and interesting person to be with. However guys I've liked only seem to just want to use me for ego boost and etc. .
A guy I've talked to for a year is now in a relationship with a girl after 3months and He does everything for her that I would talk to him about but He treated me like crap.
Another guy I liked Would always flirt with me and I would talk to him and try to get to know him more. The situations we ended up in would be the perfect set up for beginning to like someone. We walked down Grad aisle together, he taught me to play guitar, we'd be partners for things etc...
Yet he would never make the move and wouldn't dodge me if he figured i was trying to.
I feel it's the same outcome and I am starting to believe love and a happy relationship is so farfetched , & unable to happen to me in my life. I never see myself finding anyone.
Guys tell me i have such a great personality, hmm smart, any guy would be lucky to be with me
I keep thinking back to this reassurance and confidence I felt. These where guys that showed me signs first Or approached me, I've also told guys i liked them but they never reciprocated.
Don't know what to think...
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maybe guys could find you intimidating for your appearances. If this is true, men do treat women like shit to bring them back down to earth. WHat guys have said to you in the past could give you too high expectations of a future partner
Men do get intimidated if they feel there woman is better then themselves.
If a man can say her woman looks beautiful in that dress, when he actually thinks she looks to fat, why can't he say that any guy would be lucky to have you?
Guys have to expectation to go up to women, women don't land into guys hands easily.1