I feel like I'm a friendly person and am easy to get along with. I'm not amazingly gorgeous, but I'd say I'm relatively attractive. And I'm not an airhead either. I speak three languages and do medical research, so I don't think it's because I come off as "dumb" or anything.
All of the guys I know will look at me (and maybe check me out?) but are totally cold when I talk to them. Is my personality just sucky?
Your personality sucks
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You're not attractive enough for them to consider you
If you find yourself positioning yourself in areas on these continuums that are atypical of most females, that explains why you're not attracting many men. Of course, physical appearance can override these considering men can be very horny animals. But any sustained relationship would require compatibility in these regards.
A certain combination of factors have to be in place for that to happen. Things like: -the place where you are. Is it calm, Does it allow a conversation? or is it full of people and everyone will notice what's happening? -do you seem available? The way you act, the way you present yourself, or the hints that you throw or not throw at them. please read www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1908388-can-you-admit-that-some-girls-intimidate-you -he has to be attracted to you somehow... smile/eyes/hair/body... -he has to be single -he has to have confidence to move at the signals you may give, or the "availableness" that you show -the place also defines the type of people that frequent it and their goals on the type of girl they're pursuing
As you can see it's a combination of factors (and many more) that may not be easy to fit into ones lives
By the sounds of it you are an attractive person physically and mentally, but you see to these guys who may well find you interesting this could well be intimidating, i know it's weird but most guys are dull and shy, defeating themselves by saying they're not worthy of you, wait until a man with higher value and a pair of balls comes along and trust me you won't miss or think twice about the ones who weren't.