Anger is usually an outward manifestation of emotional hurt and pain. Some people are unable to gain control over their emotions so may lash out with physical violence. People display anger in different ways. A betrayal is very painful and can even cause a person to act totally out of character due to the overwhelming emotional pain they go through.
I'm not condoning violence , just pointing out reasons for a person's reaction to being betrayed.
Personally, I can easily and very quickly gain control over my emotions so I'd never act in a violent way if a guy cheated on me. I'd be brokenhearted and devasted , but I'd cut all contact with him so I could heal and move on
The reason a girl doesn't usually attack the girl who he cheated with, is because she doesn't owe her any loyalties, but her boyfriend does. He's the one who betrayed her trust... not the girl
Hey OP, did you know the #1 reason for men killing their partners (at least in Canada, I would say expect similar results for US) is because their female companions are leaving them (for other men)? The #1 female reason is to end abuse.
Men tend to be much more violent than women in the case of cheating, if you do wish me to generalize. They don't slap or hit, they kill.
I do agree with your opinion though, they should be more mature and talk it out like adults.
But again, what is the point of this question? Even if you know why, it's a fact that cannot be changed. Some girls are more violent than the others, maybe there were red flags you didn't watch out for in the early stages of dating, who knows.
Also the girl he cheats with isn't the cheater. The girl he is isn't the one she trusts, the one she loves. it shouldn't be the other woman's job to police your boyfriend. Why would someone outside of the relationship respect it when the people in it don't? The only people who can wreck a relationship are the people in said relationship.
well guys are stronger so if we hit her will knock her down , but if she hits you she wouldn't be able to do much damage so some women take that advantage, also they believe hitting a man is a brave thing to do.
You do know girls can go to jail too for attacking someone. Doesn't matter who it is, whoever strikes first is at fault. Also, I know guys who went to beat up the guy the girl cheated with, which makes no sense. The other guy isn't at fault there.