i always grabbed my balls and then walked up to the girl and asked her out. okay not literally asked her out on the spot, i introduce myself and get her name, create small talk, then ask her out lol. thats if we're total strangers to begin with. this is the same approach I've been using since I started asking girls out. and it's worked every time.
Talk to them, get to know them, feel them out, tell them that I think they're cool and I want to get to know them better, give them MY NUMBER (encourages a brotha to text back and not ghost you in my experience) and then try to set up a date. Done.
I talk to a lot of ladies but I cannot seem to get past the hello, chit chat and all, I haven't been able to take the last step to asking her out.. but I will pretty soon take the step I need little by little
Hey, wanna hang out? No? Okay, i gave it a shot lol
Sorry but why those nonsense options in poll? Poll's not needed anyway...
Well... if I see someone who's hot... I'll blow a whistle... if she turns back and notices me... I'll keep followin' her till she notices me and asks why I follow her... then I'd explain how hot she looks and dat's why...
If she doesn't turn back... I'll make another effort and if she still doesn't turn back... I'll not bother anymore... it'd be a waste of time...
I've asked guys out before and/or set up the conversation so as to give them a perfect opportunity to ask me out. I'll just say something like, hey, this weekend is looking relatively free compared to usual if you want to do something? Or I'll steer the conversation towards needing a tour guide for a part of town I'm unfamiliar with etc.
It's simple. You talk to them. Then you say something like "Have you ever been to x restaurant?" If no or if yes and they liked it, you say, "We should go sometime." If they agree, fix a date right then. "How about next Saturday?"
The "restaurant" could be anything... a movie, a local event, car show, craft fair, the beach or hiking trail you prefer... whatever.
I`m a tricky person, to wow me you`ll first have to sit in the friendzone and then if you have the atributes that I enjoy in a partner, I`ll just flirt the hell out of you. If you seem to take the bate and give back some good flirting I´ll come straight out and tell you I like you not batting an eyelash. I`ve never had a hard time getting what I want, I just have had hard time falling for a person, I need to really know who they are first outside and in.