okay. so I thought the first date went really well. we both had a lot of similar interests and I thought we had a good connection. throughout the night he kept finding things that the two of us should do together. by the end of the night we had a pretty good list of things we would have fun doing on future dates. he even said to me, "you realize we have a pretty good amount of future dates planned, are you okay with that?"
our date was Saturday. it is now Thursday and I have yet to hear from him. was it all just talk or what? is he into me or not?
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I don't blame you for wondering. Personally by Thursday he should have been asking you out for this weekend. This is not a good sign.
I don't care what sweet words are exchanged on a first date, it matters more what he thinks the next day after he has had time to sleep on it. So, until he does call, you really are not going to know where things stand. Even if he does, do not accept a last minute date, like a call on Saturday to hang out that night. Not good. A guy who is in to you will call in advance for fear you will not be available. A guy who is running game will say the stuff he did on the first date and then call last minute for the next get together.0