So here is my self evaluation. I am 23 and curvy. I could stand to lose a little weight but really who couldn't. I haven't been on a date since I was 20-21ish, never had a relationship. My friends say I'm a good person and I try to be.
The thing is that for all my qualities good and bad no one is attracted to me. Even when others dress me up to be pretty or I am myself I get ignored.
Is it just something about me that people can tell I am undatable? Did I miss my chance to gain the experience of relationships? Am I too old now to be so inexperienced? Am I just terminally undesirable?
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Lady, I don't believe you miss your chance. In fact, I do believe in hope - I myself did not have a girl from age 1 to 17. That's 17 years of singlehood, I know how you feel. I felt depressed that I'm hanging out with my buddies, feeling good cos I looked good, but hmm. nobody's attracted.
i felt really upset, I grew envious of people who were attached.
But I keep on going, and there's one thing I realised I been doing wrong.
I WAITED FOR PEOPLE TO TALK TO ME, and I betted on my looks.
It's only when I'm 18 when I start being a lot more open and assertive, doing what's right and getting all courage to talk to people.
Im now attached to a girl who I truly loved and thankful for. And these people here @girlsaskguys are fabulous! I gathered my courage and just go with it. it paid off.
I'm putting effort into this because my life has improved a lot, and I wish to help you because people here have done the same to me.0