After 2.5 years, I finally popped the question, "how many girls have you been with?"
My 27 year old boyfriend's answer floored me, "I think about 30, I was dating most of them... not just one night stands"
MOST of them? 30?
I'm enraged with jealousy, disgust, feeling incredibly insignificant and trying to figure out how to handle that incredible number.
I have no idea how to deal with this, should I be upset? Should I just get over it?
The more I think about it the more disgusting I feel for being with him. He's essentially gave it up to anyone. What makes me so different than those girls? How do I know that I'm not just steady pussy for now?
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Its funny how everyone is saying "just get over it" but if you were able to get over it you wouldn't be here asking this question.
Best I can say is try to weigh the pros and cons and ask yourself if you think you could find someone with a lower count who will make you happier overall. If you think you can then consider breaking up, if you dont think you can then try to see if you become more ok with his past over time.
Maybe see if there's something you can do together that he never did with his previous partners so that you have something that is special/intimate just for you.4