This guy dumped me because in his eyes I lacked goals and called me lifeless. I am going through a tough time right now im broke and can't find a job and barely make enough money. I live at home but there is no freedom here. I m 23 and stuck basically, he said I am no use to him and I dont have any talents he can enjoy. He is a doctor but other then that pretty boring and he thinks he is all that. Why did he judge me? instead of being openminded and if he liked me why not help me?
Most Helpful Guy
MEN GET DUMPED ALL THE TIME FOR THIS WHETHER HE'S TRYING OR NOT.
but i m sure you'll get comfort and tolerance from way more people and have the guy come off like a piece of shit 'cause you're a female.
i wouldn't marry a girl in retail even. here's why:
1. lack of money places a chronic stress bubble in both partners so they fight a lot
2. 40 percent of divorce is said to be from issue rooted in lack if money
3. if she is not an asshole and is capable, i can get sick or get injured without losing everything i owned and worked for including my family and my heart. DIVORCE
4. divorce rate for couples with the woman making more is much higher
5. i want to take care of my parents and set aside a G or 2 for their allowance every month when they retire (i dont think western people take care of their parents enough and a lot of them go through counselling for it (huge downfall of western culture i never adopted) ... thought of feeding couple people more for the rest of my life is pretty heavy just thinking about it. i dont mind when i can but i can get injured or sick then what?
i beleive in female empowerment, if she's not capable to do anything, what has she been doing for twenty something yrs? its possibly a character issue. also, if she's built something, shell know how to take care of a working man like me.
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Forget this Doctor "No Do Little" who is way too Big for his own Britches.
He never gave a Rat's behind about you, @angela55, He is Instead, Putting it in his own sick Head, That he wants a High Maintenance Girl, who may have it Altogether, but be in the End, my Friend... A Witch with many a Twitch, I betcha.
He doesn't Accept you Unconditionally here, dear. If he did, None of this Basic stuff would even matter to mopey.
If he is like this with you, Imagine the other Poor Patients on the other end of Dope's No heart Beat Stethoscope.
Bad Bedside manner is Enough for me as I even Write... You are too Much of a Florence Nitengale for him.
Good luck. xx