I used to be a 3rd degree black belt in jujitsu, a purple belt in tae kwon do and a green belt in MMA, and I always fear that guys will get intimidated by me and think I'm too violent or masculine to date. When a guy asks me what I do in my free time, I say I'm in the dojo practicing and improving my physical abilities since it's what I mainly do. Then his face looks slightly red and his eyes saying,"Uh oh, this chick is Jackie Chan and she'll kill me,"then he'll make an excuse to leave and never come back, leaving me confused and hurt. So should I keep my martial arts as a secret or something?
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I think it's very sexy. I also find it very attractive when a girl had a passion for something. Definitely stick to your goals and don't hide who you are and what you do! The guys who walk away on you are complete douchebags. There will be men out there who respect you for who you are.1