Since it's been going on this long, I wanted clarity and asked him... the answer was quite negative...
so, he still wants to continue contact with me, but at the same time, stay with his girlfriend... his actions showed differently and I was assuming they were going to break up... I honestly think he is a hypocrate... so how should I react now? I don't believe that friendship is possible if both parties like each other...
If he's going to stay with his girlfriend and not leave her. Then that proves you wouldn't want to date that guy to begin with. Since after a point he might just do the same thing to you. Best thing is to stay FAR away from that jerk.
Though you should make sure his girlfriend knows what he's doing. Since it seems like he could easily cheat on her.
Yeah this is the issue when you go for taken guys: they act like douchey taken guys.
If he wanted you beyond a cheap thrill he would have left her. This is why you don't get involved with men in relationships. Even if he did get with you, if he's willing to do that to HER, he'd do it to you.
You stop contacting with him. Obviously he wants the relationship with his girlfriend while having you on the side. Unless you don't think you deserve better than being the "side bitch", go find someone that treats your better.
Do not be fooled.. unless he actually takes the steps necessary eg 'breaks up with his gf' do not entertain B. S you deserve more than that. `what you want to settle for being his bit on the side? don't do that..