so me and this girl met through a mutual friend and we hung out a couple times. we both enjoyed spending time with eachother and then one night she just stopped talking to me and the next day she sent me a long message about how she didn't want anything because she is scared of getting hurt again and how she just wanted to be single. I told her I understood and then backed off and she continued to snapchat me everyday and text me every once in awhile. I began to think that she just wanted to be friends, but then I went to her birthday party and I talked to her very little and left without saying bye. she still showed interest in me and it confused me a lot and this is why I avoided her. after this I haven't said anything to her and have been ignoring her because I don't really know what else to do. I still really like her, but I'm not sure if I should try again because the last time I tried to get close to her she got scared and it was a bad experience. what should I do? should I text her and try to talk to her? or should I just keep ignoring her and let her come to me?
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I would say just talk to her about it. She can't go her whole life avoiding whats real, especially when you deserve to know what's happening. She probably just wants to keep you around until she's not afraid anymore.0