I've been stuck in a little bit of a rut for a while now. Actually a big while lol. I haven't had a relationship with a woman since I was dating the girl whom I thought I was going to marry someday, and this was back in 2011. When our relationship ended it was very traumatic for me. I spent all of 2012 rebuilding myself, and I didn't get full closure until 2014, when we got back in touch with one another, but have since parted ways for the best of both us. Anyway, the last time I was on a date was back in 2012. All I got was a bunch of bad dates and I realized I was just rebounding. So I stopped and focused on myself. I resigned to just being a single guy and felt like I could be content finding fullfilment through my own work and deeds. However, recently I've been feeling more and more lonely. Yes, I have a few close friends (but I've always been more of a social outcast), but no special other to share my life with and likewise her to share her life with me. I've kept trying to bury the feeling of being lonely. I mean my job is pretty solitary, so I don't have the chance to meet new women, and the bar and club scene isn't for me. And all I've had with online dating is one disaster story after another. I've always been a big believer if you're looking for love you'll never find it. I'm kind of at a loss at what I should do. 4 years is the longest I've gone in my adult life without dating. I'm not afraid to admit that fact. I'm not the kind of guy who enjoys sleeping around. I want something sincere and real. But what to do about it? Just bury my emotions and try to forget about it? Or, is there something else?
Girls, A Guy In Need of Some Dating Advice, What Should I Do?
What Girls Said 3
This is a pretty tough situation. I think you should go out and just enjoy what life has to offer. I am like you as well and don't believe that love will come if your go looking for it. So just go out! enjoy... join a club or go for a hike. Say Hi! to your barista and make conversation. I don't know ask the store clerk if the sauce is good? but don't sulk because someone is out there... and your going to be just fine. Ya know what. your gonna be better then fine :)
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I would say start looking for a girl in your local church.0
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