I dated older guys. But lately I've been getting approached by guys a little younger than me. So now im wondering should i give it a shot. They say they are looking for a relationship but i find it a little hard to believe. I think at that age younger guys want to be free.
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Yes, I want to be in a relationship and there's a good chance it's going to happen.
Your intuitions are for the most part correct. Many guys aren't quite mature enough to settle down because they are barely growing into themselves and learning what it feels like to be desired. Perspective must be developed to know what's worth pursuing.
In my case, I've asked out older women (late 20's) and as the obviously younger counterpart with a good head on my shoulders, I thought it would work. It turned out not to be the case. My body wanted sex all along and attraction quickly dissipated thereafter. No amount of reasoning could fix that.
Now I'm a bit older and know exactly what I want in a girl, and once she's in my life, I'll do everything in my power to make her feel loved. That's the attitude you want to see in a guy who claims to be serious.2
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