I have been texting a guy from on-line for several weeks. We have been planning to meet up when I move to his area. A few days prior to me driving the 16hours for the move I tell him I'm driving down on Friday, Saturday I'm spending with my family/recovering and Sunday is all for him. He responds "Wow, you really know how to make a guy feel special." So I drive down Friday and reach my destination it is midnight and he tells me "You should drive the extra 45mns to see me." I'm like no, I'm exhausted and sore. So he says "tomorrow is the day" I say no, I'm spending time with family and recovering from drive." So later that night he again presures me to see him, I'm starting to get annoyed and then he texts "Sorry, I'm just excited to see you, we have been texting over a month." Then a few mins later... "I'm good though, we don't need to see eachother tomorrow." Then follows up with "Wish you were here." So I say nothing, and then Sunday he texts me "Good morning! I'm so sun burnt from yesterday." I havn't responded as I am confused as to what happened. Was he being selfish/disrespectful or am I making too big a deal here?
I think he sounds like a fucking stupid, unreasonable moron, he's exhibiting signs of being a little bitch already... usually people wait till they feel like they've got you before you see their true, needy little colors. Do what you want, women are typically quite forgiving and give guys chances, but I think carrying on with him will bite you in the ass.
No he was definitely being selfish and inconsiderate. While I understand he was excited, that shouldn't mean he's allowed to totally disregard your feelings and well being for the sake of getting what he wants faster. Relationships require consideration and patience and you'd be doing right to tell him that.
He never mentioned coming to see you? Anyways, he Maybe just trying to carry on a conversation. He may be excited to see you, but you've been aloft. The may be sunburned. Was. He asking you to take care of him?
Online dating can be or not a red flag.. I am currently in one and its not a red flag THANKFULLY 😌 now I understand that he can be exited but I think he SHOULD BE mature enough to understand that you are exhausted and that you already have plans that he should respect! His texts were... Childish and maybe immature... He should give you some space and tell you to have a good rest... Not text u in a way saying YOU MUST SEE ME NOW, SHAME ON YOU IF YOU DONT 😆 so I think that was a complete turn, off... If he is doing this from now ( in the stage that both sides should be trying to show the best thing in their personality) , then what the hell will he do after a few months later 😶
Major question, have you ever video chatted? Also, always go with someone to meet a person you met online. it's may kill the mood a bit but better safe than sorry. Online dating can be tricky, although I am in a long lasting relationship because of it, you have to be careful. Do your best to confirm he is who he's saying he is, its not crazy it's simply about keeping yourself safe. If he flips about you wanting to video chat or bring a friend that's a huge red flag. Stay safe! 😘