I have been texting a guy from on-line for several weeks. We have been planning to meet up when I move to his area. A few days prior to me driving the 16hours for the move I tell him I'm driving down on Friday, Saturday I'm spending with my family/recovering and Sunday is all for him. He responds "Wow, you really know how to make a guy feel special." So I drive down Friday and reach my destination it is midnight and he tells me "You should drive the extra 45mns to see me." I'm like no, I'm exhausted and sore. So he says "tomorrow is the day" I say no, I'm spending time with family and recovering from drive." So later that night he again presures me to see him, I'm starting to get annoyed and then he texts "Sorry, I'm just excited to see you, we have been texting over a month." Then a few mins later... "I'm good though, we don't need to see eachother tomorrow." Then follows up with "Wish you were here." So I say nothing, and then Sunday he texts me "Good morning! I'm so sun burnt from yesterday." I havn't responded as I am confused as to what happened. Was he being selfish/disrespectful or am I making too big a deal here?
Most Helpful Guy
I think he sounds like a fucking stupid, unreasonable moron, he's exhibiting signs of being a little bitch already... usually people wait till they feel like they've got you before you see their true, needy little colors. Do what you want, women are typically quite forgiving and give guys chances, but I think carrying on with him will bite you in the ass.2
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Most Helpful Girl
No he was definitely being selfish and inconsiderate. While I understand he was excited, that shouldn't mean he's allowed to totally disregard your feelings and well being for the sake of getting what he wants faster. Relationships require consideration and patience and you'd be doing right to tell him that.1