The "feeling out period." I hate the first few dates, the having to figure out if you like the person or not, and having to plan what to do if things don't work out. This is why I tend to date guys that I've talk to for a good while and am not keen on dating cold approachers.
I hate dating because I hate the expected bullshit games that are expected. I'm looking for a committed relationship. Assuming she is also, why jump through all these damn hoops, and why not just get to know each other?
I hate how men have to shoulder the entire set of burdens and risks himself, and essentially pay his date one way or another (either with date money, cash, or some form of jumping through hoops that ensures that in the relationship she is the social and sexual better).
It's fucked up that dates are even associated with free food. It's not free for men. That's the price we pay to just get a chance to be with you.
The anticipation, having no chemistry, having attraction for them, but they have none for you. Not being able to quite be yourself, first impressions never lie. Wondering if they will call back. Wondering why you have been on so many dates with no luck at all.
I don't hate anything about it. If I find a pretty girl with a nice personality then usually I can't wait to ask her out lol. After getting to know her a bit and finding out if she has a boyfriend or not of course lol.
Two things. If I invite you on a date this means I like you and you impressed me enough for me to invite you so no need to pretend to be someone you are not trying to impress me. And second - if I invite you on a date it means you passed my golddigger's radar so don't be stubborn and just let me pay, you can pay next time if you insist.
I love the first date! I have plans made in advance. No place to noisy, I want to talk to you. Dinner is a must. More talking, and pick up on weird habits. Something physical (like disc-golfing). So there is more talking, holding hand... At any point of this date I can take you home if your phycho, or if we really hit it off.
Breakfasts! You have to have breakfast, can't skip one because you are always tired at nights either having sex (manageable) or seeking sex (because it is so close and you still can't have) the second one I hate more!
I don't like dating because I don't like flirting until later in the relationship.
Dating is stupid. Let's just have sex
My list of what I don't hate is probably shorter
What I don't hate list: 1. Possible loving happy relationship. 2.
Actually E! Haha Yeah, I agree with the dude on your gif... I'd much rather be alone than waste my time with someone terribly boring of rude, or just not a person you click with in any way. It's a huge disappointment more than it is anything else. Oh well... I'm Batman! =)
Seriously.. I don't think the first dates should be expensive, some people might want to impress and all, but for me the first dates are to meet and get to know the person, if it clicks and you both like each-other you can eventually have more expensive dates in the future otherwise, if the both of you don't click, it's huge loss of money.
I enjoy getting to know the guy. However, if he exhibits rude, obnoxious, and/or sexist behavior then I will not want to date him. The after part is what I hate the most, when he starts calling me bitch, c*nt, etc. because I decided I was not interested.