I never had a boyfriend and I'm afraid to fall in love with someone because a lot of people have told me you suffer a lot and that's gotten me somehow terrified I'm only 17 years old but I want to meet someone who wants a real relationship something serious am I asking for much?
Most Helpful Guy
An immature guy will rip out your heart, stomp on it and throw it back at you. These players are to be avoided unless you're just DTF.
You'll probably have trouble finding a guy who understands what a real relationship is all about. And he may not be the guy you are first attracted to. But if you can find him it will help you grow and it's well worth having.1
Most Helpful Girl
Well if you're afraid of falling in love/relationships, how do you expect to even open up your heart to someone?
Unfortunately, you cannot find a keeper in the dating world without experiencing heartache and disappointment (unless you're REALLY lucky hahah). But you learn a lot from those things too! You learn what you're looking for in a SO, and who you are as a person. It teaches you how to deal with being hurt and rejection and all of those awful feelings. Just keep an open mind, remember everything in life is a learning experience with the right perspective. Good luck in finding love!1