So I have been on 2 dates with a guy who I feel attracted to but when I am with him I don't feel like myself I feel like I need to please him so he won't feel bored and even like that he is still bored and don't know what to tell me and I also have like a bad feeling like I don't feel good of being with him am I the only one who feels like that with someone you like? He started talking to me and eventually I accepted going on a date with him but he seems to not know what to tell me i eventually ask him more questions and it seems to bother him? What should I do and am I the only one this happens to?
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It sounds like he has some insecurities and shyness that are bringing out your own insecurities. Yes, this has happened to me and it's usually an indicator that you're not compatible. I went on a few dates with a really sweet guy, and no matter how much I wanted it to be there, (and him too since he kept asking me out), it just wasn't there. I didn't feel an easy connection or conversation with him, and that's very important to me.
If you don't feel good around somebody, listen to your instincts. Don't keep dating him just because you're attracted.1