No, its not a turn off. Is it uncommon however? Yes. The only virgins I've ever seen in large amounts are those online. That's because there's literally hundreds-thousands of people achieving the same site, from all across the world. In the real world, being in your 20s and being a virgin is uncommon. However, that's your personal decision no one will ever know unless you get close enough with someone and confide with them your secret. Once someone is interested in you, whether you're a virgin or not will not matter. What will, is the chemistry that you share and if you both are on the same page from a dating stand point.
No it's not unattractive. I know I don't consider sexual experience a factor in someones attractiveness. I think a lot of guys think women expect them to perform and put themselves under pressure. Sex should be a shared experience together and an expression of how you feel about each other. It should not be about who has done what, nor should it be about impressing each other. If you sleep with someone then ideally it should be someone you have built a connection and trust with. I guess the other point is that I find a guy's attitude to sex makes a much bigger difference to how good he is in bed - a guy that wants to please, watches his partner's reactions to workout what she likes, and is enjoying himself is always better. I am sure if you have a good attitude, what you don't know you will learn really quickly.
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