So, imagine you're walking down the street with your bestie of the opposite gender and you stop at a park. You both sit down on a bench by a lake and talk about whatever - and then the conversation slows down. You look into their eyes and realise there's a bit of tension. You don't know what's about to happen. And then they lean in and kiss you gently. How do you react to that?
"Wow. Okay. Don't do that again." (Not good, but you forgive them and try to forget about it)
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"Why'd you stop?" (Sweet mother of Mary. They did it! Finally!)
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"I'm sorry, I have to go." (You're confused and probably won't talk to them for a little while until you're sorted out)
Well, when my best friend kissed me I just went with it. There had always been some sort of sexual tension between us and the kiss just clarified whether we had chemistry and could turn the friendship into a relationship or whether it was just a friendship. At the end of the day, I think we both needed to experience it just to set our minds at ease. Today it is like nothing has ever happened.
I'd be okay with it and we'd talk about it & figure out what caused it. He'd know that he shouldn't have done it, and I am guessing things would have to be a mess in his life for him to think that was okay so I'd just try to be there an support him and not hold the kiss against him. We'd leave in a good place BUT then I'd have to go home and explain it to my Husband. I am sure he really wouldn't care (depending on the situation of course ) but I am sure it would make group hangs a little awkward for a little while after -lol.
Kiss back. He's my best friend isn't he? If I can't trust him, who can I trust? It would be a cute moment to share, but if I wanted to remain friends, I would make sure to tell him that. This has happened to me, but we stood as best friends and nothing has ever changed.
That would totally depend on the situation... I'd totally understand if she did it while she's going through a breakup or something, then I know she's just emotionally wrecked and that's what made her do it; I wouldn't make a fuss. If she just suddenly started being attracted to me and did it then I'll evaluate if I should proceed towards it with her or just explain to her that she's my friend.