You know what I mean. She is the most beautiful girl you will ever see or maybe she is filthy rich or maybe she is an "alpha female".
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I think you answered your own question. Those girls are hard to approach because you are thinking of them as "A-list," as "the most beautiful girl." You're putting her up so high that it's intimidating to approach her. If you think a girl is "the most beautiful," then of course it will be harder to talk to her rather than a girl that you think is "average." Instead of ranking girls, just try to think of them as people. That might take some of the pressure off, and going up and introducing yourself will feel no different than meeting a new friend.0