Not using her sexuality as a tool or weapon, sees men as human beings who have value that is intrinsic (that is, present even when he's not being useful or productive), almost ALL of the attributes that women find attractive in men, a sense of justice that is blind to sex, values adults and elderly as much as children, would never, ever ask me to marry her in our current legal climate (in the USA), doesn't use her vagina to exempt her from hardship.
How does she treat other people? Is she kind to others? Does she have a good sense of humor? Does she take herself too seriously, or not? Does she have a core of integrity? Is she knowledgeable about at least a few things? Those are some of the things I look for.
For me it would be height, it's a big deal breaker for me. I'm 6"8, I don't want a girl who's like 5 foot as its like I'm dating a child and I wouldn't like to go out with someone taller as I like being tall