So its been almost a year since this happened and I'm pretty sure we weren't actually boyfriend/girlfriend at the time but my boyfriend does construction and he had said "This girl flagger was so hot. My friend and I were gonna ask if we could take her out to dinner" and laughed about it.. His friend had a girlfriend of 6 years and they're now engaged. I'm pretty sure it was a joke.. but how would you feel about this? This was about a year ago and we weren't dating.. what do you guys think about this?
If you weren't dating I really don't see the problem here, except about his friend but indeed , he wasn't serious. It sounds strange that you are bringing up something that happened a year ago , why is that? I'm an industrial electrician and almost all my coworkers have stable relationship but since we're all boys , they do call it out when they see a cute girl but it isn't nothing more than that. Don't stress about it.
He was Probably Kidding and May too Have just Tried to Get a Rise out of you. I would Not say it was a Red Flag Sign, and as Long as He is only Wining and Dining You... Let the "Hottie" Rest in her Stance, there was Never a Chance for Romance.. You have him Now. Good luck. xx