What turns you off when dating a man/woman?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • Being Too Fast with Talk or Hands or Both... In Wanting a Real Relationship.
    Good luck. xx

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What Girls Said 12

  • I get really turned off when a guy is rude, especially if he thinks it makes him cool. I've dated a lot of guys that have acted like a "bad boy" to impress me, but it really just comes off as rude and arrogant and they never got a second date. I also don't like it when people judge others or say mean things about others just to get a laugh.

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  • Arrogance and close mindedness

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  • If I was single and dating, I wouldn't date a guy if he fits any of this criteria:

    Smokes
    Drinks excessively (moderate alcohol use is fine)
    Uses drugs (aside from prescriptions)
    Hates dogs (my dogs and I would be a package deal)
    Mistreats other people or animals
    Is arrogant or rude
    High maintenance (overly dramatic, vain, narcissistic, etc)
    Violent/abusive/controlling
    Misogynistic, says bad things about women, or complains/whines about women

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    • I am the same I hate and would not date a woman that smokes
      hates dogs or who hates cats because I love both those animals
      is a misandrist, says bad things about men, or complains/whines about men. I hate women like this and there seems to be a lot of women like this.

    • Plus abusive women I would not date either.

  • Arrogance, being close-minded, having view points I can't stand, has bad hygiene habits, is rude to family and friends, is ungrateful etc. I think those pretty much sum it up.

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    • Yes all those are a turn off in women for me to. Including women that have view points I can't stand to. LOL

  • narrow-mindedness/bigotry
    traditional
    wants marriage and kids
    poor hygiene
    stupid af
    fat
    All I can think of atm

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  • Obnoxious
    Rude
    Sexist
    Arrogant
    Racist
    Very sloppy
    Close-minded
    Poor hygiene

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    • Yup sexist women piss me off to.

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    • Yes, even if my girl accidently pooped the bed because she was sick I would be ok with it. I mean it is not like she thought "I need to poop and can't be bothered going to the toilet I will just push it out in the bed" is it.

  • Untrustworthy, poor hygiene, unreliable, arrogant, insensitive

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  • I don't know, I've never dated anybody xc

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  • Lying
    Inconsistencies
    Playing with my emotions
    Lack of drive/goals
    Arrogance

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  • 1) lies
    2) not trust worthy
    3) Slutty
    4) Doesn't smell good
    5) Cocky/ stuck up
    Many more.. lol!

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  • when he likes talking about our relationship with other people, pisses me off. also being too polite, sends red alerts in my head from watching too many psycho thrillers.

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  • I've never dated anybody before.

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    • What if a guy was a smoker would you date him?

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    • You see I can't stand women that smoke, I would far rather have a woman that farts a lot than a woman that smokes. Please don't judge me.

    • Lol not at all. Everyone has their own preference and I will not cannot judge u for that! Smoking is dangerous for health and it quite frankly gross! So I understand where u are coming from. Nice question by the way! where does it stem from?

What Guys Said 8

  • 1) Obesity
    2) High maintenance women
    3) Drama Queens
    4) Women who expect me to put in all efforts myself.

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  • Shyness
    Lacking Sense of Humor
    Easily Offended
    Has a child
    Wants Marriage
    Fat
    Traditional
    Gossip and Drama
    Materialistic

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  • 1. Smoking (nobody who doesn't smoke wants to kiss an ash tray)
    2. Work conversations (dating isn't a job interview. Unless it turns into a particularly interesting story, I don't need to hear about her office life.)[I understand that much of marriage is commiserating each other after tough days at work, but that's not dating]
    3. Ignorant opinions (opinions are fine, and it's fine to disagree with each other and argue about things. Having an opinion without bothering to find any justification for it isn't fine. "Just because" and "that's just how I feel" are lousy arguments.)

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  • entitlement
    not attractive
    doesn't study
    doesn't believe in GOD
    loves money more than me
    cares about her status
    cheats
    and the list goes on and on
    basically the girl I want doesn't exist

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  • Ignorance and arrogance.

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  • I have never dated so I dont know much.

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  • Bad breath and rudeness, especially early in relationship.

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  • Smoking... it's a deal breaker

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    • I agree. What if she is a very gassy woman and farts a lot. I heard of a guy and he thought his girlfriend must do 40 or 50 farts every single day.

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