I want my future spouse to earn at least over $110k (reveal his salary asap), no signing prenup, no pre-marital sex, can't have any student debt or car loan but mortgage for our future house is fine. Has to be a nice person with a good sense of humor.
Hate to burst your bubble but anyone making that much money will have to have gone to college, and anyone who has gone to college will have student debt. Really, unless they haven't gone to college I doubt they won't have student debt. And the fact that I STARTED with that kinda shows just how odd, if not totally unbelievable, of an expectation that is. It makes a rich, good looking, dude *with* student debt who is willing to wait for marriage and not sign a prenup somewhat more believable.
Me personally I'm just looking for someone who is willing to laugh with me at bad movies over some cheap pizza. I don't really have a preference on looks (I don't mind some weight on a woman) but they do have to be someone I'm attracted to.
LOL. Wow. Are you trolling? At least 110k? I don't personally know many people who make that much. Could you imagine if a guy said that this is what he expects of his future wife. Who do you think you are? You're probably one of those rich, snobby, stuck up, gold digging bitches. You better look like a goddess or be just as successful as him if you expect that. The first thing you said was how much money he has to make. Why does it matter anyway? It's his money not yours.
I think that if those are your standards, you might have a tough time of it. People who make a lot of money are usually the first to suggest a pre-nup. And asking for a virgin in this day and age is ridiculous, unless you're a whackadoo religious nut (in which case, enjoy each other).
Why do you want your partner to earn over 110K? Do you earn that much or more? I don't think your standards are too high, but if you have high standards, remember that you should be able to match up to them yourself.