I had a thing for this guy and was crushing on him real bad. We actually went on a date and he mentioned going on a 2nd date, which we both agreed to the first time we met. We did text back and forth for a while but he never really asked me out again, took forever to get back to me (sometimes 2-3 days) so I decided to cut all ties with him.
We haven't spoken together for 3 weeks now and I'm starting to miss him. I think about him all the time and now I've been having this feeling of wanting to reach out to him (which I'm not of course)
Why do I feel this way and did I do the right thing in cutting contact with him?
Most Helpful Guy
Sounds like you're just a normal person in the beginning stages of a new friendship/ relationship.
Humans are kinda weird in that, we really enjoy newly made relationships. The effects of a newly formed relationship are similar to the effects of cocaine.
Yes, you're going to miss him and yes its going to be hard, but it sounds like you made the right call.
If he doesn't appreciate you or your time enough to get back to you, then he clearly doesn't value you enough to put you before himself. If he can't put you before himself, then maybe he just isn't the guy for you.
Hope you figure it out,
Regardless, the feelings will go away and you will feel better with time.
Be blessed :)2
Most Helpful Girl
This Apple that You Took and Partook on a 'First date' here, dear, was the Juiciest One way at the Top and Now... Hardest to Grab Again, my Friend. "I'm starting to miss him."
It's been Nearly a Month of Mondays and With him Not getting to You, it Shows he May have Moved on Now Somehow.
It is your Choice, the Hand basket is in your Court yard. You can either Try and Text him to See if Maybe things Might have Changed in Another direction or Continue Down the Path and Begin a new Beguine Of... Meeting another Better Bob.
Good luck. xx1