everytime i see an indian guy hitting on a girl he just seems creepy why is that?
Most Helpful Girl
I don't know how accurate this is or not but someone (who is Indian) told me that Indian guys are shamed a lot for expressing themselves sexually to women in their culture. If they don't approach women right or do the wrong things then women will refuse to date them or call them perverts etc.
So I imagine it's all held in and then when they see women from places like the United States, who post selfies in bras and attention whore it up on social media, they probably get the impression that American women want what they want. So to them it's not really creepy to say those things to women.
And then they hit on American women and the girl with the duck face and bra top is like- "omg Indian guys are so gross, they don't know how to talk to women".
So yeah, I think it's a difference of culture obviously. I think they don't understand boundaries very well because of it.2
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Most Helpful Guy
Their social standards are really really different from in the west.
On the other hand their English is good enough that they can be on sites like this. Most places out of western Europe or English speaking countries, that's not the case.
To them western girls are so forthright that it must seems like anything goes, which it doesn't. But the 'rules' here are invisible to them.
It would be like if you went to an orgy, and then you touched some girls breast, and everyone stopped and yelled at you 'you don't touch girls on the LEFT breast what's wrong with you!!!'1