I'm in a bit of a dilemma.
I'm on an online dating site and I started emailing one girl a couple weeks ago. That went great and decided to go on a date after she returned from vacation. When she was away I started emailing another girl who lives 4 hours away and we exchanged numbers and have really clicked. We talk on the phone for a few hours each day and text throughout the day.
I am meeting the second girl 1 month from now for a weekend in her town. We are both excited for it, we flirt a lot, etc. I almost didn't want to see anyone else. But then I went on a first date with the first girl and that went really well - I liked her and she wants to go out again in a second which I agreed.
I don't know what to do. Do I ditch the first girl and wait 4 weeks to meet the second and limit my options like that? Or do I ditch the second even though the chemistry is great? Part of me wants to keep both in case one doesn't pan out
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It really depends on your status. You can date many women if your single, men and women do it all the time. But when you reach a point when you both decide to be boyfriend and girlfriend, the dating thing should stop. Until you you officially have a girlfriend, date as many women as you want. I can guarantee the women you date will be seeing other men.