We met online and we have been seeing each other for about 10 months. He's Muslim rather religious my family is Christian and religious, but I am agnostic. I love him now but I know I will never be able to tell my family about him. And I know we should stop seeing each other, but its very hard to do, as I don't have a real reason. I am happy with him, so there is no current hurt or anger to make leaving him feel worth it. Yet it bugs me that we can never be a normal couple. What do I do?
Most Helpful Guy
Why do you think you should stop seeing each other? Lol.
If he is religious, you'd probably need to convert to Islam or pretend to still be a Christian to marry him. As far as I know, Muslim men are allowed to marry "people of the book", which constitutes Jews, Christians and Muslims. I'm like 70% certain about this. If I'm correct, the only issue would be reconciling his family and yours.
Seeing as you should already be a mature adult, there shouldn't be an obstruction in your decision to marry this man at all. It's not your family's decision to make.
I believe you need to get your priorities straight before making this decision. There's nothing wrong with marrying him. But you need to know that he's the man you're going to spend all your life with.
Most Helpful Girl
You don't know what you're getting yourself into, he's not for you. And he will NEVER marry you. I had a friend who was Muslim and he only dated girls outside his religion, but he always told me he's only using them, he doesn't care for them. I asked him why are you leading these girls on? He said he didn't care and they wanted him...
Don't get yourself into this dilemma, he says he loves you now but when facing his father he will deny his love for you... This is a doomed relationship.
My advice is to end it now... before things get worse.1