Is he testing my response or being sexual?

I started chatting to a guy in his early 50s that I met on match.
He seemed OK, gentlemanly and described himself so.
all was going ok until the spooning memes. He said he loves a hug and a nice spoon. I've gotten mixed messages from this guy as he's playing the gent card. His profile clearly states he doesn't want casual he's looking for serious.
His last meme was spooning leads to forking. I can get the joke but really.
is he looking for a reaction?


What Guys Said 2

  • Both. He's seeing where you are at sexually, while showing he is open as well

  • Probably a little of both... Definitely looking at a reaction.. but still need more info... just see what happens.


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