This might sound bad but I'm going to pour out my feelings and see if anyone else feels or felt this way.
I'm not sure why but I always seem to reach this problem when it comes to romantic relathships. To explain this I'll need to provide some information.
Im currently dating this amazing guy and we have almost everything in common. He says he loves me and I am the one for him. I feel the same way I love him and can easily see myself being happy with him for the rest of our live together. The problem is I always reach a point when I get super stressed out in the relationship and think about how easy it was when I was single. I had a lot of free time and knew I couldn't ever get hurt because there is nobody to hurt me. Not that I think my boyfriend would cheat on me or anything but I guess I have this fear he would one day start to have feelings for someone else. Maybe get a simple crush and it progresses. I understand it's a illogical fear but not unrealistic. People do get bored in relationships. The beginning is always the most exciting and new part. I feel like there is something wrong with me and not the people I date. I always get into such serious relationships with the guys I date and feel such guilt when I get feelings like this because the guy doesn't deserve this. Am I just meant to be single for the rest of my life? Anyone felt this way before? Thanks for reading all of this! Any input is appreciated.
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Nah it doesn't mean you will be single for the rest of your life, but I completely understand what you mean because thats also how I feel and thats probably why Im back to being single.
I feel both being single and attached have its goods and bads. When single like you said '' I had a lot of free time and knew I couldn't ever get hurt because there is nobody to hurt me'' and its true, you run your life however you want and dont have to worry at all about getting hurt. But thats what we give up when we enter a serious relationship, we must sometimes take these chances. I find it a bit hard myself but hopefully I'll get over it. So you're not alone in feeling that way.1