My boyfriend of 2 months and I met ON tinder. The thing is, I was checking his activity the other day and noticed he is active like every day, his photos sometimes change, and his best friend who he lives with sometimes put funny overly sexual descriptions with my bf's pictures... When I confronted my boyfriend, he said it's just his best friend going on because he likes to mess with girls and get reactions, all play.. And that he doesn't go on anymore. Yet, I see him as "active" from his phone on his account like every day so he's lying. I don't know, could this be nothing? Why would he go on like all the time?
Girl, I know what you feeling right now, my boyfriend is on hot or not and I know he is on there every day, and of course i didn't meet him on there, but he got it just this past week. Of course i know he is messaging other girls, and not just guys even though he says he is just on there to mess around. I'd straight forward ask him, just be like hey i noticed this and that, and if he can't tell you a straight forward answer dump his ass.
Those sites are so bogus most times as a guy could be talking to a girl he thinks, but actually it is some gay guy using a female sign in.. same as for girls that think they are talking to a guy.. and it turns out she is a lesbian using a guys sign in.. to me it is way better to meet a person face to face.. none of these sites will I ever go to
At the least he likely likes the attention or feeling desired. I bet he is more likely at least flirting with the intent of doing more. There are lots of people that will cheat. I've known people that have been proclaimed as "great" or "the nicest person" that haven't had an issue with cheating unfortunately.
I'm pretty sure women are more likely to do that. I instantly swipe left on girls that didn't write anything on their profile or say some sort of stupid bull shit like: "I don't know why I'm here" "I'm just here for laughs" "just want to see where things go"
"The thing is, I was checking his activity the other day and noticed he is active like every day,"