we both work at Mcdonalds and have known each other for a few months. Just the other day, he told me he wanted to talk to me alone, and that's when he asked me out. I was shocked and told him Ill think about it, but Im embarrassed to even go back to work now. I might turn him down, he's not very attractive at least.
Now I am very much attracted to older guys, but 42 is a bit old. I like guys mostly between like 24-34. what should I tell this guy?
Wow! Is he trying to get arrested? Wow! It's like he's asking to go to jail. Yes, you should turn him down at least for the time being (if not, for good). He must be a complete stupid moron for pulling this shit. If I were you, I'd strongly suggest mentioning this to your supervisor. He doesn't need to be arrested or even fired as he didn't rape you or harass you, but he does need to be talked to. If your supervisor is a kid like you, then I'd talk to your parents. You need some adult that will help you out of this. Even if you turn him down, he could get crazy. After all, he was crazy enough to ask a 16 year old out (when he's 42). If that's not crazy, I don't know what is.
Let him down politely, but sternly. You want to make sure you are respectful but get the point that you are not interested whatsoever with him.
This is honestly disgusting. I remember working at McDs at 15 and I had 30+yr old men asking me out, many in their 40s. Ugh. Fucking pedos. *Shudders*
Anyways, make sure you also tell at least your parents or family or even friends you can trust. If he persists or makes you feel uncomfortable, tell a manager right away. I made the mistake of "letting it slide" too much with an old coworker of mine. I was 17 and he was a divorced man in his 30s. I kept being polite and telling him I wasn't interested, he would NOT STOP BOTHERING ME. He even resorted to stalking me! Needless to say, report it, preferably in writing and with a witness if available, to a manager because these older men oftentimes think it's ok to get out of hand very quickly.
42 and working at Micky D? What a loser! I wouldn't be surprised if this guy is a virgin. Lol!
Anyway, he would be classified as a pedophile here in the US. You should've flat-out rejected him (especially since you're not attracted to him). If he continues to be persistent then report him to your boss immediately.
He's old enough to be your dad and works at Mickey D's hitting on teenagers. You probably aren't the first one he's asked out and definitely won't be last until he finds himself locked up. Just tell him you aren't interested and really mean it when you say it, don't beat around the bush because then he'll feel the need to someone how convince you to go out anyway.
Also stay away from older guys until you're grown, guys that are interested in girls young as you have issues you don't need to be apart of. Guys like him just look for young naive girls like you (no disrespect but you should've told him no on the spot) and try to take advantage of you, nothing serious could ever come of it.
I don't think that a 34 year old is that different in maturity or looks even for that matter than a 42 year old. That being said it sounds sketchy. It is technically legal I think, barely as in if you were 15 it wouldn't be. but still legal. As long as he is not in a position of authority over you.
He's older than my dad... Besides what on earth does a 42 year old want anything to do with a school age girl? Anyway, I wouldn't go any further with him. Just be honest and tell him you don't see him in that way.
I would tell him very clearly that you don't think it's appropriate and then avoid being alone with him. A 42 year old man should know this isn't appropriate which makes me think he doesn't know where to draw a line... so stay away from him.
I'd tell him no first of all. Second, you're still under age so that is illegal anyways. (I'm not one of "those" who would call the cops or anything. Some people are just attracted to each other and that is their life. But that's way too old lol. If he gets weird or starts pushing you and it's uncomfortable I'd let your boss know
I'm sorry my opinion here is to say no. Tell him to take a hike. A 42 year old? Seriously? What a perv. He's 26 years older than you. That's a big no. At least go out with someone that's around your age like between 16-18 or 16-20. Even though a 20 year old is still a little bit older than you. All I'm saying is stay clear if him. He might kidnap you or something of he's into 16 year olds. Carry a knife on you for protection. Or if you don't own one then use a fork that works too.
You're 16, tell him you're a kid and that he should read the book "18 and the law". And you can't date a guy older than 17 until you're 18. Depending on what you guys do, he could go to jail. I bet he has kids older than you. Tell your boss that that old ass man tried to ask you out.
I hear the creepiest things here on gag I swear... I bet he thinks you re his soul mate too... say no. if he keeps asking or acts all butt hurt report him for harassment immediately, no buts and no pity.
Where are you from? In some places that would be illegal and if so I'd report him to the manager, what a pervert! Especially as it's made you feel so uncomfortable to even go back to work. If it was legal (it is where I'm from) I'd nicely but sternly tell him no and I'm avoid him as much as possible. Creep!
Girl, anything over 19 is too old. You are so young. He should not have asked you out. That's very inappropriate. Don't feel like you owe him anything either. Simply tell him no, or that you are talking to someone else.